You’ve read the books, taken the classes, and set up the perfect little nursery. But nothing truly prepares you for those first few days with your newborn—the sweet, messy, emotional, sleep-deprived whirlwind where time feels both endless and like it’s slipping away too fast.


Let’s get real about what to expect—and how to document these fleeting moments beautifully.


You Will Stare at Your Baby… A Lot

Newborns have this magic about them. You’ll find yourself watching their tiny chest rise and fall, memorizing every little wrinkle and stretch. Soak it in—these details change fast. Keep your phone or camera nearby to snap those in-between moments: the way they curl up on your chest, their milk-drunk smiles, even the chaos of the first diaper blowout (because one day, you’ll laugh about it).


Sleep? Never Heard of It.

Everyone says, “Sleep when the baby sleeps,” but what they don’t tell you is that newborns sleep in 30-minute surprise intervals that make it nearly impossible to plan your own rest. The exhaustion is real, but so is the overwhelming love. Capture the sleepy cuddles, the way your partner dozes off with baby on their chest, and the quiet, middle-of-the-night feedings when the world feels still.


Your Emotions Will Be a Rollercoaster

One minute, you’ll be crying over how perfect their tiny toes are; the next, you’ll be overwhelmed by the sheer responsibility of keeping this tiny human alive. It’s normal. Give yourself grace, and ask for help. Let someone else take photos of you rocking your baby, even if you’re in pajamas with messy hair—those are the moments that matter.


Your Baby Won’t Look Like an Instagram Baby Right Away

Newborns are born puffy, blotchy, and sometimes a little funny-looking. (It’s okay, you can admit it.) Within days, their features settle, their skin softens, and their newborn glow kicks in. This is why professional newborn photos are usually taken around days 5-14, when they’re still squishy and sleepy but past that brand-new transition phase.


Time Moves at Warp Speed

The days blur together in a cycle of feeding, changing, and cuddling. Before you know it, your tiny baby won’t fit in that newborn onesie anymore. Take videos. Write down little notes. Schedule your newborn session early so that you don’t miss the chance to have these first moments turned into timeless artwork for your home.

Those first days are messy, magical, and completely unforgettable. And while it may feel like a blur, the love you’re experiencing right now deserves to be captured. Because one day, you’ll look back and realize these were the days you’d do anything to relive—just for a little while.


Want to document this season with newborn photos that you’ll cherish forever? Let’s chat and get your session booked before time races ahead!

tips for being a new parent by newborn photographer Samantha Ann Photo studio in swansboro nc near jacksonville, Havelock, and hubert.